Start with what brought you here

You can say, “I haven’t been feeling like myself,” or “I’m having a hard time with something and would like help understanding it.” You do not need to arrive with a diagnosis. Note what you have noticed, when it started, and how it affects a typical day.

Bring the information you have

If you took a screening, you can bring its name and your printed result. A list of your medications, previous care, and questions may also be useful. It is okay if you do not have every detail. Tell the clinician which concerns feel most important to discuss.

Ask practical questions before you book

Ask whether the provider serves people in your state, offers the type of evaluation you want, and accepts your insurance. You can ask about self-pay prices, appointment length, video visits, and any paperwork. If a cost or process is unclear, it is reasonable to ask for clarification.

Leave with a next step you understand

Before the appointment ends, ask what happens next, who you can contact with questions, and when to follow up. You can ask for information in writing. Care decisions should be a conversation you can participate in.

A next step, at your own pace.

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By Check My Mental Health · Educational information. This guide is not individual medical advice.

Further reading: NIMH: Talking with a health care provider about your mental health.